I Can’t Forget The First Time I Made Love To My Wife – Omotola Jalade- Ekeinde’s Husband

Nollywood actress, Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde’s
husband, Captain Matthew Ekeinde in a
recent interview with Entertainment Express
talks about his wife and their marriage.
Excerpts
What is the secret of your 17 year old
marriage to Omotola?
I won’t say we have been good because I am
a fine boy (laughs), but it is just the grace of
God. I am so lucky and also blessed by God to
have married my God given partner.
That is a very important thing about
marriage, you have to find and marry your
God given partner. That is why a lot
marriages breakup. Some men marry
women because of their hips, their boobs,
legs and some other side attractions. But
after sex with her so many times, what
happens next? Does she have a good attitude,
character or good human relationship with
others? I am not saying we are perfect
couple, we have our own differences but we
are compatible.
We have been married for over 17 years
with four beautiful kids. One thing that has
been working for us as a couple is that I
always encourage her to be who she wants
to be. I give her full support always. Lots of
married women that are caught cheating on
their husbands could be traced to the fact
that some of their husbands don’t allow them
explore their talents.
I encourage my wife and kids to be what
they want to be. Most of the influential men
and women we have in this world didn’t
even go to school. So it is all about exploiting
your talents. Some women love acting but
their husbands won’t let them believing that
other men would touch or exploit them
sexually. It is all about discipline. Those that
want to cheat will cheat; it is all about self
control.
So when you see your wife kissing on set,
you don’t get jealous?
No! Not all. My wife tells me about her
acting. Most times she even complains that
some actors she acts love scenes with have
mouth or body odour that she can’t wait to
leave this scene. So I even pity her on what
she has to go through and endure being an
actress.
This acting thing is just some minute acts and
that is it. Will she follow the actor home?
Lots of homes have been broken because of
too pressure on the wife or even the kids.
For the 17 years that you have been
married, what are those special moments
you can’t forget in a hurry?
Hmmm! Truly and honestly, I can’t forget
the very first day I made love to my wife.