Wednesday, 1 January 2014

Four things Men should NEVER say to a Woman


Its all there in black and white but most men
still don’t see it.
Anyway, here it is written down for you. Maybe
you should print out, make a copy and keep for
future references? So you won’t at least say we
never told you.
Here are six things a woman never wants to
hear a man say to her.
1. You’ve added weight: aka you look fat.
When a woman adds weight, she knows. And
trust me, she is very conscious of it and wants
to work out the flabby parts. But when as her
lover you blurt it out to her then her level of
insecurity is likely to rise plus she’d feel very
hurt and even if she never mentions it, she’d
not dress in front of you as much, neither would
she want to have sex as much or eat as much
with you.
2. Can’t we be a little like *insert name of other
couple here*: whenever you feel the spark in
your relationship is gone or that you want your
relationship to borrow some qualities from
other people,  then carefully fix it. Or ask your
woman “how about we do this or that?”.
Do not compare or ask her to be like your
friend/brother/whoever’s girlfriend/wife. She’s
not them,  she’d never be them. Likewise you’re
not them you’d never be them. So be mature
about things and handle things like an adult.
3. Asking for private time: you are allowed to
have your own time as an individual in a
relationship but be careful how you ask for this
time. Most men just go ahead and say “I need
some me time” and then wonder why the
woman becomes very withdrawn and hurt.
Usually when a woman hears that, she’s not
sure what to do.
She constantly thinks, if I do this now would he
appreciate it or would he think its not
necessary in this “me” time. Would asking him
to the movies be a bad idea? Would going to
drop lunch for him at work be a bad idea? So
many things go through her mind that make her
unsure.
So how about you tell her why you need this
time and for how long you’d need it?
4. It was okay: no woman wants to hear this as
a response to “how was the sex” she’d
certainly feel hurt and won’t put her all into the
next time. If there is a next time in a very long
time.

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