I read the comment below from a guy
commenting on the Gabrielle Union/Dwyane
Wade love saga, trying to explain why most
men are unfaithful. (Dwyane had a baby with
another lady while dating Gabby) Dear men,
please read another guy's view below and tell
us if he's close to the truth..
There are more women than there are
men, and whether you know it or not,
"your" man probably has another
woman...or two. Stop being naive to
these facts. A man has to both love and
be in love with a woman in order to be
faithful. Majority of you have men that
only love you and that's makes all of the
difference.
Most men are not in love with their
women. I am using men as the end all,
be all because society is patriarchal and
it is fitting and very true for my
assessment.
Do you ever, ever hear men saying "I
can't wait to get a ring!" or "I can't wait
to get husbanded up!"? No. Most
marriages are initiated by women as are
most divorces. Society has convinced
most women that the pinnacle of their
existence revolves around marriage to a
man and bearing his children.
Because of society brainwashing most women
this way, men can generally get away with
whatever they want to because they are the
prize in the relationship, not the woman. What
a lot of women do not understand is that they
are nothing more than live-in maids, cooks,
and sex partners. Of course a man can love a
woman who cooks, cleans, and fucks him. But
the magic is with the man BEING IN LOVE with
the woman. Love and being in love are two
different blurred lines and people like to gloss
of this fact in order to save face and their
feelings.
I think that infidelity is rampant because most
men are not in love with their women. I could
also argue that forcing most people in
monogamous relationships also creates
infidelity, but I do not feel like explaining all of
that right now. Anyway, yes, the "being in
love" part of relationships do not last long at
all. Do you ever hear people say "The spice is
gone"? or "I'm bored in our relationship"?
Yeah, that's where these sayings come from.
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